Tuesday, 29 June 2021

Why Jesus didn’t say amen

 When Jesus didn’t say Amen.



Recently in my praying I’ve tried to use my imagination to meditate more and keep me focused.


‘Imagination and meditation’ might set alarm bells off in your head but pause and ask why?


The Bible is filled with references to meditation and as for imagination; that’s what parables are for! ‘The kingdom of heaven is like...’ 


So today I was praying for little Zion, and I asked Jesus to join me, to ‘sit in’ on my prayers. I wanted Jesus in the room, I wanted to hear in my spirit His amens.


There was a silence that unhinged me. I knew that Jesus wanted him healed and well. That’s not up for debate. But why was my praying not feeling like they were ‘effective’?


Did I lack faith?  


‘No’ I sensed the Jesus saying, ‘you lack compassion.’


‘You need to put yourself in that ward, in Zion’s shoes, so to speak. You need to feel the heat and humidity in the room, the ulcers in your mouth the tubes in your nose, sickness, vomiting, lack of energy and pain.’


I closed my eyes, trying to imagine; I began to weep...


‘Now, you need to put yourself in his mummy and daddy’s shoes.’ 


It became almost too much to bear and before I knew it, I was praying in the spirit... I could hear the amens of Jesus and all of heaven.


Often our lack isn’t faith it’s compassion. Jesus was constantly moved with compassion for lost and sick people.


Will you join me today in praying for Zion?

Faith-filled, compassion fuelled prayers. 


Mitch


P.S


Little Zion, you taught me more about prayer today than a 1,000 sermons and books. 


I’m cheering you on kiddo and so is all of Heaven.


#cancerkid #neuroblastoma #celebratethewins #thankful #Godisfaithful #raiseahallelujah #zionthebrave #PrayforZion #PrayerWorks #Healing #Prayer

Thursday, 6 May 2021

Why is depression and anxiety are so common among children and adolescents?





Lie to your kids.
Long post but worth reading:
Erica Komisar, A psychologist recently published an article in The Wall Street Journal about how to help children overcome anxiety and depression.
I found it really challenging how she has emphasised the role faith can play in helping our children and probably adults too. Note: anything in [ ] is mine.
“As a therapist,” she began, “I’m often asked to explain why depression and anxiety are so common among children and adolescents. One of the most important explanations—and perhaps the most neglected—is declining interest in religion.” This cultural shift already has proved disastrous for millions of vulnerable young people.
A 2018 study in the American Journal of Epidemiology examined how being raised in a family with religious or spiritual beliefs affects mental health. Harvard researchers had examined religious involvement within a longitudinal data set of approximately 5,000 people, with controls for socio-demographic characteristics and maternal health.



The result? Children or teens who reported attending a religious service at least once per week scored higher on psychological well-being measurements and had lower risks of mental illness. Weekly attendance was associated with higher rates of volunteering, a sense of mission, forgiveness, and lower probabilities of drug use and early sexual initiation. [let’s hold this picture in our heads and reflect on the decline in church attendance in the UK and Ireland over the last 30 years and increase in mental health matters. Let’s also ask ourselves why, on average the church spends just 3% of its total budget on children and youth ministry in the U.K. Or why most youth and children’s workers ended up in furlough for many months during the pandemic?]
Read on....
She goes on to document that decline and its negative effects on children. “Nihilism [ the rejection of all religious and moral principles, in the belief that life is meaningless.] is fertilizer for anxiety and depression, and being ‘realistic’ is overrated. [wow]
The belief in God—in a protective and guiding figure to rely on when times are tough—is one of the best kinds of support for kids in an increasingly pessimistic world.” But what if parents don’t believe in God? “I am often asked by parents, ‘How do I talk to my child about death if I don’t believe in God or heaven?’ My answer is always the same: ‘Lie.’ The idea that you simply die and turn to dust may work for some adults, but it doesn’t help children.” She goes on to prescribe offering children images of heaven—even if you have to lie!—to counter the bad images all around us in our broken world.
[In an age of broken families, distracted parents, global pandemics, school violence, knife crime, and nightmarish global-warming predictions the church plays a big part in children’s ability to cope.
Now at this point I offer a better solution than lying to your kids or even yourself.
Explore the truth of Jesus Christ.
He’s the rescuer, the one who frees us from guilt, pays for our sins, makes us new, gives us a future, the promise of eternal life and welcome everyone... EVERYONE.. with open arms.
If I can help you on that journey just ask. ❤️
I’m convinced the church has a key role in society today and following Jesus Christ is essential to living a full life]
Mitch